bengalsfan4life1981 :
My girlfriend, who i love to death is a horrible dresser. She wears nothing but t-shirts(guys t-shirts at that), blue jeans or wind pants or jogging pants. I mean she is beautiful, but she says she dosen’t want to dress like all the other girls, which i can understand. people want to be individuals. but on the same end when we go clothes shopping for me, she finds these god damn t-shirts that are way to big for her but she like the designs so she gets them and wears them everywhere. People always think that she dress’s herself out of my closet and i am really getting tired of it. Is there any kind of happy medium out there, where she wouldn’t be showing too much skin(which she wants) to at least wearing something feminine(which i want her to do). And dresses and skirts are out of the question, she would rather jump off a cliff than wear one of those. Maybe i am just being to picky, but i just wish she would at least dress like the beautiful woman she is.
no she didn’t always dress this way, it is progressively getting worse.. the other day she wanted a football jersey of her team. thats fine i told her not to buy a mens one cause she would be swimming in it. so we tried to find a womens one and they didn’t have one so naturally she started looking at mens ones. luckily i found a youth xl that fit her perfectly. almost like the womens ones. so would it be out of the question to suggest at least the youth xl shirts instead of mens. at least they fit
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thats a tough one. i think you should tell her how u feel how people are thinking she wears ur clothes, but tell her u think shes beautiful and everything but ur getting sick of people saying stuff about her to u. she can wear just wear some tighter t-shirts or polos. just clothes that fit her, and it wont expose skin. also some fitting low cut jeans. it should be fine
Go out and purchase something that you would like to see on her, wrap it up nicely and give it to her. Find an occasion for it so that she’ll accept it. Then invite her to go somewhere to wear the new outfit and just gush about how gorgeous she looks like nonstop. Maybe she’ll see how much you really like seeing her like that and she’ll try a little more.
Simple.
Get her some tees and jeans from Abercrombie & Fitch, and she won’t WANT 2 shop anywhere, else because A&F clothes are SOOOOOOOOOOOOO comfortable!!!!!
I would maybe try buying her a nice top and a nice pair of khakis or a nice pair of capris for her birthday or christmas. Then if she doesn’t wear them, kind of (sarcastically) tell her that you spent all that money on those clothes for her and you thought that she would look beautiful in them and now she isn’t even wearing them! lol
She dressed like that when you met her and hooked up with her, didn’t she?? So either find a gf who dresses the way you want or get over it. You can’t change people to be the way you want.
If you love her to death, then let her be comfortable. Someday, if SHE wants to change how she dresses, she will.
I had a boyfriend once who said I dressed “boring,” because I wore a lot of jeans and tee-shirts when we did stuff. I was in dress clothes all day and didn’t want to be dressed up for what were supposed to be fun evenings. I got tired of him telling me to dress up when he’d show up in sweats!
As long as she’s clean, which is different than being sloppy, let her be. Love her for HER and not for what she looks like. And if people ask if she’s dressed from your closet, tell them that’s what she found on the floor after a wild night of passion.
I mean first. If you liked her at first while the dressed that way then she might say why should she have to change now? Most of the time when women dress in over-sized or baggy clothes its for a reason other than not wanting to dress like all the other girls. Because believe me, their are lots of women that dress that way. It could be that maybe she doesnt like her body, or maybe she has been dressing that way for so long that she things she would look funny in those clothes, or she doesnt think she is pretty enough. Tons of reasons. You should talk to her about it first, Tell her how you feel and ask her why she really doesnt like dressing feminine. Dont be pushy. Alot of times ppl wont like something until they try it take her shopping ask her to try on some different things tell her how good she looks in them. If that doesnt work you can always take her on What Not to Wear or How do I Look? (TV shows) just joking
Let me first assure you that it’s absolutely perfectly fine for you to want your girlfriend to dress better, she’s gorgeous, she should show it off, plus it boosts not only her self-esteem, but yours for having such a pretty lady by your side. If going out and fancy attire is necessary, suggest getting her a blazer/suit, their for women, extremely classy, not too showy and comfortable. The suit should be tailored with a just-right fit, not too loose and the pants should flare at the bottom, with a high heeled slipper, she’s set.
If you want to coax her in wearing more feminine clothes, i suggest casually looking through the mail and sometimes you get those catalogs for women. Browse through it and show her some of the things you like. Or try saying you need to buy some clothes for a sister/cousin/colleague as a birthday present, and take her with you, make her try on the clothes for “size.”
She will only have that body once in her life she needs to show it off!! now is the time when she can wear what ever she wants because she is young and beautiful. Try to get her to buy stuff that fits at least. but after kids and getting older she won’t be able to wear whatever she wants
You don’t own her therefor you can’t tell her how to dress, you can only make suggestions. It really should not matter what she wears if you love her cause when you love a person you love them for them, and right now you are trying to change a part of who she is. So therefor you kinda love her for what you want to change her into.
Everyone haves their own different style, and they have the right too. I don’t think you are going to get her to wear a dress or skirt cause that is so far off bases as far as she is concerned. However If the way she dresses you need to talk to her about it like an adult don’t behave childish cause that will get you no where. Try shopping at some new stores maybe she can find more clothes that fit her body better then the men’s shirts and still feel like she is not changing her style. Like maybe some dress pants, a tank top with a blazer over top of it. That could be a compromise for the dress and skirt. When it comes down to it it’s her body and she is going to dress it the way she wants too.
Sign her up for the show What Not To Wear. Go to TLC’s website.
well y dont u try to buy her somin that ud like her to wear – as a present. im sure she’ll wear em. if she is the slight bit into jwellery by her beads or earings or a braclet. oterwise just face her and tell her how u feel about her wearing all that stuff. explain to her how u think that shed look more beautiful wearing somin a bit more feminie or just a bit more acceptable.
Give her several gift certificates that have to be redeemed at only dressy places. Allow her to pick out what she likes. Allow her to change the way she dresses. Don;t try to force her to dress a certain way. Also, women go through changes. She will dress this way for awhile and than Wham, she will shock ya. Just be glad she doesn’t dress all slutty and show all her stuff off to make other guys drool. Another thing you can try too is go to hair saloons and nail places and get her certificates to get her hair done and nails done. May be even a manicure or pedicure. Women LOVE to be pampered, and once she gets the taste of that nice pampering she will change for you I promise. Good Luck!
Basically, the deal is the following (from a guy): If you don’t like certain items of clothing, be prepared to replace them with items that you do like and be prepared to pay for most (if not all) of the cost. My g/f needs some new stuff to wear and I pony up for new stuff. That way, we are both happy!